Italian dating and marriage
This tradition is supposed to encourage conception.
On his wedding day a groom carried a piece of iron in his pocket, which was supposed to “ward off the evil eye” for fear that envy, and jealous feelings might destroy his happiness.
In days past, an Italian bride did not wear a white dress but instead a dress in the color green (which symbolized fertility).
Today most Italian women do opt for the color white to wear on their special day.
Italian receptions include many different courses, sometimes as many as 12-14.
There are sufficient amounts of pasta, salads, soups, meats, and fruits for everyone.
To kick off a wedding reception, the bridal party is kept apart from the rest of the guests for approximately an hour and served cocktails during this time.
In readying herself for the upcoming nuptials, the bride-to-be collected a trousseau (or hope chest, called la dote) of household items, clothing and sometimes even a few pieces of clothing belonging to her future husband.During the many wars fought in Italy, items in hope chests had to be carefully packed and then put away in excellent hiding places because it was feared the soldiers from the invading army would find their way into homes and steal everything inside.Besides the hope chest, her family often gifted her with a dowry of monetary value and in some cases domestic goods such as dishes and silverware.Before any food is served, women are treated to sweet liquors and men to stronger drinks.Generally the first thing served is antipasto and it includes such delicacies as stuffed mushrooms, olives, salami, pickled peppers, calamari and prosciutto.